A lesson on Support

This post is going to be short. I am learning how to be more supportive of my husband and his pursuit of his dream to do comedy. This is one of those nights that I would love to spend time with him, but he wants to go out and do some networking. Thanks to deep breathing, good food, and red box, I think that I will get through this night. Support means sometimes sacrificing so that the your other half can grow....

Sage...who knew

Okay so things are better now that we have decluttered our house and burned some sage to get all of the negative energy out of this apartment. I didn't expect the sage to smell like weed, but it seemed to make this place a little bit more peaceful. Being married means having strength when your other half does not have the strength to get through things. One of us has to be stron. Maybe when I get weak, he will be strong enough to handle the weight.

WHEN THE OTHER HALF IS AT 20%

What do you do when your partner gets so down and in a funk that not even his favorite meal can pull him out of the mood that he is feeling. I understand why he feels the way that he does, but I do not know what to do to get him out of it. He barely eats and just wants to sleep all day. I wish that I could pick him up and let him know that I am here for him. Sometimes when he feels the way that he feels, it makes me feel down as well. The last time he fell into this mood, we moved five states away and started over fresh. Maybe it's the pressure of having a pregnant wife, two toddler girls, and no employment. I am doing all that I can to pick him up....but he is still down.